Can we try to be nice?

Let’s just take a time out and stop assuming about each other. Why don’t we also stop judging too along with unrealistic expectations for others. Life is not a competition people. So why does it seem people seem to think that if they can’t find you, you don’t answer in their time frame or in a manner they feel is “right” suddenly there are assumptions made that are not even close to how reality is.

I don’t understand why folks let themselves get in a tizzy over something that they have made up in their head about you. Or they take it to another level and suddenly someone is a bad person and they are passing judgement on someone. Whether or not its you or someone else, why do we tend to think the worst of people? Why can’t we have a little hope, no matter how many times they’ve screwed up. or not, that they are handling issues of their own and it isn’t about you or anyone else for that matter. They are just trying to handle their life the best they can and don’t need anyone telling them how to live their life. I don’t care if you live with them, there could be things you don’t know about.

So let’s save the judgements and assumptions, scratch that, let’s just do away with them altogether. Try giving folk a break, turning the other cheek and not being such a tattle tale. Once we get past a certain age, we are considered adults. It would be a better world if people would just remember not only that they are adults, but the golden rule of “Do under others as you would have done unto you.” A much, much better world.

Imagine it.

Keep Hope Alive!


22 thoughts on “Can we try to be nice?

  1. Well said, I need to practice some of those things myself, and stop assuming I know what is best for someone else and what they can and can not handle about me. They are quite aware of what they can an can not handle. If I had to judge people I would have to start with myself and that is a mighty be job I don’t recall putting an application for. We’re not to judge people that isn’t our job, so it’s wrong to even judge ourselves. I always learn something from your post, whether they be if a serious manner or a light heart’d fun post. I always take something away with me that I try to use in order to change.So please continue to write your blogs, as i’m sure many people that a lot away from them, learning some new type of perspective on life in general. Keep Hope Alive.


  2. Wonderful blog! I found it while surfing around on Yahoo News.

    Do you have any tips on how to get listed in Yahoo News?
    I’ve been trying for a while but I never seem to get there!


    1. That’s fascinating! No idea how I ended up there, but have been the tagging thing! I am slowlyyyy learning how to get a bit more noticed and tagging (you know, the only pound sigh #! lol) seems to work! Good luck!


    1. Not yet. I am technically challenged! I have not done the tweet yet but am looking into it soon. Maybe for my 6 month log anniversary I can start the tweet, but I am not sure! LOL Thank you though! Please enjoy the maos of my mind!


  3. I’ve been exploring for a little bit for any high-quality articles or weblog posts in this sort of space .
    Exploring in Yahoo I at last stumbled upon this website.
    Reading this information So i am happy to convey that I’ve an incredibly excellent uncanny feeling I discovered
    just what I needed. I so much surely will make sure to don?t omit this web site and give it a look regularly.


  4. Just wish to say your article is as surprising. The clarity for your publish is just excellent and i can suppose you are knowledgeable on this subject.
    Fine with your permission let me to grasp your feed to keep updated with coming near near post.
    Thank you 1,000,000 and please carry on the enjoyable work.


  5. Wow, superb blog layout! How long have you been blogging
    for? you made blogging look easy. The overall look of your site
    is great, let alone the content!


  6. Everything is very open with a really clear explanation of the issues.
    It was really informative. Your website is extremely helpful.
    Many thanks for sharing!


  7. Excellent post. Keep writing such kind of info on your site.

    Im really impressed by your site.
    Hello there, You have performed an incredible job. I will definitely digg it and personally suggest to
    my friends. I’m sure they’ll be benefited from this web site.


Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s