Often times in life we have so many expectations placed on us.
It seems like they are there daily to keep you on your course or drive you out of your mind.
I know I place expectations on myself.
I often wonder if I am too hard on myself or not hard enough.
I know that others have expectations of me and I know that I let them down sometimes.
I hate letting people down.
Some matter more than other, but to me, they all matter to varying degrees.
I love being told I should raise or lower my expectations.
Please tell me about the how and why I should!
For general things, movies, going out in public, etc. I have placed lower expectations so that when I have a pleasant experience I am often surprised and happy that they met and exceeded my original expectation.
With people I place a higher expectation. Though I realize it is not more than I place on myself.
We all have quirks, issues and faults.
It isn’t about that.
More of the basic human decency to communicate, respect and not take each other for granted.
Lately I am finding that many friends and family have gone above and beyond when it comes to me and my own expectations.
I am constantly amazed when someone tells me I inspired them or I performed much better than anticipated.
I recently found myself facing the first time of not being able to meet a deadline. I physically could not do it.
One of my fabulous friends stepped up to the plate and just offered, no strings, to help me.
This is how my friends and I are. We just step in and help.
I can’t tell you how much this meant to me.
Another friend knew I was upset about having to go for a medical procedure and offered, again, to take off work and to the appointment. She had just done it and was offering to ask off again to take little old me downtown again and wait while I have the procedure done. She will then take me back to another mutual friend’s home where I will recover for the day.
These people don’t have to do these things for me.
I do not expect it.
Yet they show me they care by stepping up and going beyond “the basics”.
I am so blessed to be around folks like this the majority of the time.
I must say when I collect my friends, I only collect the best!
Have a fabulously graceless Friday my friends!